Love Your Teenager Again
Drastically reduce the contention in your home (without compromising your values!) through personalized sessions with a Certified Life Coach in this 4 week program for LDS moms.
Hi, I’m Emily. I’m a Certified Life Coach, an active member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints, and a mom of teenagers.
If you’re anything like the moms of teens that I work with, you might be feeling overwhelmed, exhausted, and constantly worried. You might be starting to wonder whether you’re really cut out for this motherhood thing.
(“Like, wouldn’t it be great if parenting were a baton relay, and you could be like: “Okay, I did the baby/preschool/elementary school phase, but this teenage stuff is WEARING.ME.OUT. so I’m gonna tap out now and can someone else please take it it from here?!”)
Maybe you lie awake at night worrying about your teenager’s choices, terrified about what the future will bring. You’ve tried everything to get through to them—lectures, punishments, even just letting things go—but nothing seems to work. Sometimes you blame your teenager, and sometimes you blame yourself, wondering where you went wrong.
Where did that trusting, cuddly kiddo in footy pajamas go…? And has anyone seen that kind, patient mommy who used to love her job?
Things at home look different than they used to. Can you relate to any of these?
Yelling, snapping, or nagging more than you mean to, and then feeling guilty about losing your cool.
Feeling out of control about curfews, friends, church, school, or screens.
Wondering if you’re failing as a mom— you’ve offered everything you could to this child, and apparently it wasn’t enough.
Crying when you’re alone—feeling exhausted, hopeless, and out of ideas.
Constant anxiety about what your teen is watching/texting/reading/getting exposed to on their phone
Walking on eggshells, unsure how to parent without triggering a fight.
Wishing you could go back to the baby stage—as hard as that was, at least you could snuggle them and feel peace at night when they were asleep.
I get it.
I’ve actually been there too.
I want you to know you’re not alone.
And you’re not failing.
Most people think that if they were a better mom, their teenager wouldn’t be struggling.
But the truth is that even great moms have teens who make mistakes. Even really big mistakes.
I know.
You want to see them thrive.
You want to see them make choices that will benefit their future
You want them to be able to avoid the pitfalls that will keep them from being able to develop a testimony, graduate from seminary, and go through the temple.
It can feel like your job is to harp on them to try to keep them on track.
But what if your job is actually to show up with compassion, understanding, and clarity so you can truly support them on their complex, sometimes winding road?
The more you try to control your teen out of fear, the more you push them—and your own faith—away.
Here’s the great paradox I wish more people understood:
The influence you crave… the influence you are MEANT to have as their mom, won’t come from trying to control your teenager.
It will come as you honor their agency, let go of fear, and step into love.
And that’s exactly what I help LDS moms do in my new coaching program.
Introducing…
Love Your Teenager Again
A 4 -Week Coaching Program to help you reduce the contention in your home and reclaim the joy of motherhood.
Here’s What You’ll Learn:
Week 1: The Real Reason You Feel Out of Control (And the Simple Shift to Change It)
The Control Illusion: Why trying to manage your teen’s choices is actually making you feel powerless
Who’s Driving Your Car? The simple mindset shift that will bring you peace (no matter what your teen does)
The Mote and the Beam: Obsessing over your teen’s choices isn’t quite what Jesus taught…
Week 2: The Fast Track to Misery: How to Guarantee Frustration and Resentment
The Manual Trap: How having expectations you can’t actually enforce is a setup for disaster
Breaking Free From “Should”: The secret to peace in parenting
Take Back Your Emotional Remote Control: Learn how to stop letting your emotions be dictated by your teenager’s actions
Week 3: The Hidden Battle: What You and Your Teen Are Really Fighting About
It’s not really about the curfew or the phone— Getting to the heart of what you and your teen are each trying to “get” in any argument.
Don’t Get Duped by The Adversary: How parents get tricked into reaching for the illusion of control
The Gift of Agency: Celebrating your teen’s God-given power to choose (even when they make “bad” choices)
Week 4: Loving Without Conditions
The Myth of “Earning” Love: Why waiting for your teen to change before you love them is keeping you both stuck.
How to Feel Love No Matter What: The secret to unconditional love (and why it’s actually for YOU).
From Faucet to Waterfall: How to turn your love into an unshakable, unstoppable force.
Week 5: "The 3 Mistakes Most People Make When They Try to Set Boundaries"
Why Most “Boundaries” Are Actually Just Control in Disguise (and How to Fix It)
The Key to Setting Boundaries Without Guilt or Resentment
What to Do When They Cross the Line: How to hold your boundaries with confidence and love.
Week 6: The Great Exchange: Letting Go of Control to Gain Influence and Connection
Why Giving Up Control is the Most Powerful Move You Can Make
How to Become a Safe Space for Your Teen (So They Actually Open Up to You)
The Secret to Lasting Influence: When you stop trying to manage them, they start turning to you.
Here’s how it works:
Every week…
We’ll meet on Tuesday for a live, 60-minute coaching session where I’ll teach you powerful tools to shift out of fear and into love.
I walk you through guided exercises to help you apply the tools in your real-life parenting moments.
You’ll be able to ask live questions and get real-time support from me on these weekly group webinars.
If you can’t make it live, no worries—you’ll have access to all the replays.
And on Thursdays, I’ll hold Office Hours—an unstructured time where you can share victories or struggles, ask questions, or come on video and get coached by me.
The webinars will be every Tuesday from 12-1pm MST beginning April 1st for 6 weeks.
Office Hours will be every Thursday from 9-10am MST beginning April 3rd for 6 weeks.
Soar Coaching Package (8 Sessions and a few bonuses)
Eight 1 on-1 private coaching sessions // 50 minutes each via phone
Extended Two-Hour strategy session for first call
Personal Values Assessment added to strategy session to help you understand your unique core values and lean into them throughout our sessions
Annnnd….
Unlimited e-mail and voxer access for questions, feedback, support, and accountability.
(This is a premium feature that will skyrocket your personal growth as you journal and share insights and we engage in ongoing, transformative discussion!)Take a personal assessment of your choice, and get an extra “bonus” coaching session dedicated to exploring your results!
Choose from these 3:
CliftonStrengths—Discover the top five strengths that make you stand out, and use your comprehensive Strengths Insight Guide to help you effectively leverage those strengths to reach your goals.
DISC—Explore your unique personality blend and gain insight about how you respond to challenges, influence others, and respond to rules and procedures.
Spiritual Gifts— Find out your most powerful spiritual gifts and use your personalized report to determine how you can serve others and best approach conflict, pressure, and working with others in context of your talents.
Price: $999